With Bare Hands Only.

Bare Hands Only!

Surrounded with family and friends and yet so lonely,
Trying to fight myself with bare hands only.
It feels like I am drowning in my feelings,
With nothing to support me, not even railings.
With life turning dark as black,
The power of support is all I lack.
I feel like a slave; the one who has no life meaning,
Banging my head on the wall, screaming out loud for some hearing.
Everything seems blue with me choking on my own breathe,
With life goals filled with holes are being the reason for my death.
I am stung by my mind and can’t think further,
All paralyzed waiting for myself to render.
That void of frowning and tears which never closes,
All the energy I have ever gathered,
have fallen on the floor and has been shattered.
I won’t give up, I won’t die,
Because, I know this is all a lie.
Surrounded with family and friends and yet so lonely,
Trying to fight myself with bare hands only!

This is a poem written by me. Thanks for visiting and reading ūüôā

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A REALITY CHECK!

‚Äú…There are too many idiots in this world. And having said it, I have the burden of proving it.‚ÄĚ -Frantz Fanon.

This is a Reality check for some people who can’t withstand the following events. So I wrote this post with few facts which they really need to know so they can open their eyes and mind and see the world the way it should be seen and not the way they want it to be!

 

1) What’s the harm in skirts of short cloths?

It’s really unfortunate when people say,¬†you can’t wear skirts or a girl can’t dress in a certain way. Are we going back in the dark ages?”

 

I do not understand why do people have negative thoughts about a girl who wears short clothes! Don’ t they like to dress up and feel good when they go some place nice? It’s a normal girl under those clothes who is trying to look pretty, feel nice and lives a normal life like they do. People call her slut,shameless or ugly! That’s not going help her in any way. People need to know that everything is perfectly fine with her, just the difference is they are wasting their time and energy spreading negativity and she is happily enjoying her life!

 

2)Strength of a rape Victim!

‚ÄúI just want to sleep. A coma would be nice. Or amnesia. Anything, just to get rid of this, these thoughts, whispers in my mind. Did he rape my head, too?‚ÄĚ -Laurie Halse Anderson,

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Have you came across a person who is a rape victim? I have, and let me tell you ¬†she is one the bravest person I have known in my journey. She is 21 years old and went through the incident when she was 17 years old. Getting raped at such an early age she had to go through a lot. At her college people mocked her, the society called her names and what not! But she never lost her¬†confidence¬†and her will power to stand back on her feet and show everyone she is still the same girl. She kept ignoring such people. At times she broke down but her family and close friends were the one who held her up! And now she works for 10 NGO’s and helps people. She is a reason for hundreds of people’s smile.So, next time you come across such a person rather than feeling sad or giving sympathy to the person or thinking wrong about her, feel proud and get inspired and respect her for her willpower and hard work which many of us lack!

 

3) Do You Call Yourself A Man?

“Part of being a man is to take¬†responsibilities for your success and your failure”

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“Man” when you hear this word the you might start thinking of a man who is strong,¬†Charismatic, built up and rich! But is this really what a man is?? A person who¬†vows to protect his girl and then abuses her at home is that a man? When a person who loves his girl, his mother and his sister and then rapes a¬†unknown¬†girl¬†¬†is that a man? When a person needs help and the person just walks by, is that a man? A man is a person who respect’s women, knows his limits, knows to use his words and knows to take¬†responsibilities¬†of himself and his family. So, next time you see a person who lacks these qualities, that person is not a “Man” but a “Male”

 

4) Social Sites Ranters!

“The production of too many useful things results in too many useless people.”

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So here I present You all, The most jobless people on the entire earth. wait…In the¬†entire¬†universe! ¬†These people will spam your news feed with posts like..“share if you care” “don’t do the ALS ice bucket challenge” “Like if you care”¬†etc..But in reality they don’t do damn thing for any of the cause. They will probably give you an hour lecture on how bad plastic is for the environment and they are the same people who buys plastic bag from the¬†grocery¬†shop. They will post statuses ¬†about¬†“stop rape”¬†But when there is an actually rally for it to make the laws stronger for rape cases they will probably sit at home browsing the internet and sipping their coffee. For such people I have a message.¬†“GET REAL! stop living in the virtual world and come out and actually do something humanity. And if you can’t do anything then please shut the F up!”

 

5) Being Gay Isn’t A Sin!

You know, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender – people are people”¬†–Judith Light

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Have you ever loved someone? I am sure you have. But the question¬†arises, with the person of same or opposite sex? You will probably get angry and reply, ” obviously! opposite sex.” Let’s focus on that anger for a moment. Is there anything wrong if someone loves a person of same sex? I don’t think so. Feelings are bound to get attracted for someone. The person is¬†“Homosexual” so what? he is just a normal person who loves a person of the same gender. He dreams of becoming something like you do, acts and reacts the way you. People mock such person, tease him, bully him and call him names. At such a point the only thing i can say is, “These people are blind and can’t see the world beyond that curve which earth has.Their¬†vision¬†is¬†limited.” And as person religious point of view, it also says “don’t use condom” but is that healthy? Of course not!I am not offending any religion but trying to prove a point here. Being Homosexual is not something bad or wrong, Some people really need to know this fact! You really need to know that, people can love whoever they want. You should only have a problem when the person does something to you which is less likely to happen. I hope each and every country passes the LGBT rights in this coming decade.¬†AND PEOPLE, OPEN YOUR EYES!

 

I didn’t mean to offend anyone here! Please share your thoughts about the post in the comments and do let me know about any corrections.¬†Thanks for visiting and reading. ūüôā¬†¬†¬†¬†

 

30 Reasons you are bad at Parenting.

Parenting! one of the longest and the toughest job you have to do. Its a job for which you are not prepared at school or can take any course to master it.More than a job I would like to call it a relationship. Most of the times parents keep wondering are they a good parent  or no?, are they doing their duties properly?, is their kid happy with them? and so on…This post is not like me, a 16 year old complaining about my parents and my friends parents or something. After talking to around 300 people at my class and college friends I have come up with these major 30 problems a kid doesn’t like about their parents. Parenting is difficult we do agree. But, if you make few minor changes you can make your child love you more than they usually do.

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1) You don’t give time to your kids.

Kids like talking to their parents, knowing them more and build a bond with them. If you don’t give them your time you will be like a stranger to them.

2) Your answer to their most of the question is NO!

By you keep saying No all the time to them,  they will end up lying to you for doing the things they want to do.

3) You are very hard on your kids so they will be very disciplined.

You should build a relationship with them like a friend and not like a teacher or a gym instructor. Be friendly to them and be their closest friend.

4) You don’t ask for their opinion before making any family decision.

They don’t want to feel avoided or less valuable at home. Every decision you make about your family make sure you ask them for their opinion and listen to them properly.

5) You remove your work frustration by yelling at them and making a fuss about their life.

You do have a lot of stress because of work and house problems. But try to be calm rather than shouting around all the time at home.

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6) You don’t let them go meet their buddies at least once a week.

You think they are wasting their time by meeting their friends who are useless or some other reason. But, its very important for a person to interact with their friends so they have a better social life and also it makes them feel better.

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7) You keep calling them every 30 minutes when they are out hanging out with their friends.

Every parent is worried about their child when he/she steps out of the house and they wonder is the child doing well out or no. But that doesn’t mean you keep calling them every 30 minutes. You need to take a chill pill!

8) You don’t give enough space to your kids.

You keep sticking to them ALL the time! you want to know everything that’s going around them. That is the last thing a kid wants, specially a teenager. Teenagers need a little space.

9) You have a problem with your kids hanging out with a person of opposite sex.

You don’t like them meeting people of opposite sex, especially if you child is a female. Trust me, even if you do that, they meet people of opposite sex all the time behind your back.

10) You never indulge in any activity with them.

The only activity you do with them is watch TV with them. Don’t you know that thing ROTS their brain? Go play sports with them, if you have younger kids do coloring with them or play games with them at least once a week.

11) You show Zero interest in the things they do.

You do care about your kid but you really don’t bother bout the things they do. Let’s say your child made a painting and is trying to show you.But you are procrastinating it since days. This shows you are showing no interest in his/her work and hurting his/her feelings.

12) You force your kids to score good marks and make their life a hell!

Scoring good marks is a thing which every parent wants their kid to do. But that doesn’t mean you will ground them and make them study all the time.

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13) You keep pointing out on their one weakness every time you argue with them.

Every child has a weakness and if you keep pointing out that weakness at them every time. They turn very vulnerable to it and it turns them weak.

14) Rather than talking about the issue you start yelling and hitting your kid.

Talking solves every problem. ūüôā

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15) You keep pointing out to that one cousin who is amazing at everything, all the time.

Every family has this one kid who is good at everything and you keep pointing out to your child towards him if he/she  does something wrong. They don’t like it! once a while is fine but not always. Read this properly…..”They might end up murdering that person!

16) You keep checking their cell phone.

Give them their privacy.

17) You don’t trust your kids and you are suspicious towards them all the time.

If you don’t trust them you can’t build a healthy relationship with them. Trust is everything.

18) you underestimate your kids.

Stop telling them they are incapable of doing things all the time. They need motivation which a parent can be a good source of.

19) When someone complains about them you start yelling at them without hearing their side of the story.

Listen to your kids, they are not always wrong.

20) You always yell and get mad at the older kid.

Just because he/she is the elder one that doesn’t mean that child is responsible for everything. The younger ones do cause a lot of fuss for which the elder one has to pay.

21) You keep bragging about your kid to everyone.

This builds over confidence in your child and this results in poor performance in activities or studies.

22) You fulfill their every wish.

You buy them whatever they want or do everything they say. Rather than being a good parent you are turning them into a SPOILED BRAT!

23) If they point out your mistake, you get angry.

Even you do mistakes, accept it! ūüôā

24) You care more about your elder/younger child and give less importance to the other one.

Both should be equally treated as both contain your genes. ūüėõ

25) You point out their mistakes in front of their friends.

Never do that! They actually want to peel their skin off their body when you do that. Also it results in mocking from friends.

26) You don’t understand the silence of your kid.

Your child will be silent all the while for some reason and when you ask him/her, the answer is “nothing happened.” There is something going on. Try to be more friendly and more connective and try to know the problem Rather than shouting and making them scared of you.

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27 You fight with your partner in front of your young kid.

Never fight in front of your young child, this effects a their     mind. Make sure you use a proper tone and proper words in front of your young child. Its like you are shooting mental torture arrows at them.

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28) You don’t care about their hobbies and force them to do activities which you and your relatives will be fine with.

Its about them, and not about you or your relatives.

29) you keep expecting things from them.

As a parent you keep expecting things from them NATURALLY. But try to lessen that expecting level.

30) You are clueless about their 50% of friends.

If you don’t know at least 50% of their friends. I don’t know what you are up to! knowing your kids friends is a very important thing as you get to know what kind of company they are having around them.

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These few points should help you know your mistakes. And if you do at least 5 of the things mentioned. Rethink on that topic and make sure you correct that mistake. Thanks for Reading. ūüôā